The truth about the trifecta of love

The Trifecta Love is a social media throuple who unapologetically enjoys their polyamorous relationship online. Paoulo Quispilaya, his wife Kassandra Diaz-Cervo and his partner Carly Martinez are known as The Trifecta Love online. The trio have been posting to YouTube and Instagram for a while, but they blew up after joining TikTok.

The Trifecta Love currently has 904K followers on TikTok and they post all kinds of videos on their channel. The trio is unique and many people are interested in learning about the dynamics of their relationship. This article will look at how the trio met, how their families accepted their relationship, how the group is keeping their relationship strong, and their plans for the future.

Paoulo and Kassandra were already married before meeting Carly

Paoulo and Kassandra were in a long-term relationship before meeting Carly. Kassandra was attracted to Carly, but the pair did not begin a relationship. A couple of months later, Carly found herself attracted to Paolo, and the trio realized that there was something between them. The Trifecta then decided to start a relationship. According SunCassandra said:

“It just happened. We weren’t sure what it was. We tried not to chase it down and bottle up our feelings because we’ve been taught that there’s no such thing as loving two people at once. We looked into it and found that there was a community and a word for it. it: polyamory. We decided to just do it and not be held back by social conditioning.”

The trio began a relationship in February 2018 and it was initially a long-distance relationship. Carly moved in with the married couple in April 2018 and everyone was happy with the relationship. However, they all had reservations about the relationship. Paoulo didn’t know how the new relationship would affect his marriage to Kassandra.

Carly was afraid of feeling left out considering that Paoulo and Diaz had been in a relationship for much longer. In the end, however, the love they had for each other triumphed. Kassandra stated in a Q&A video posted in December 2019:

“If you think about it, how I love my mom, my dad, I love my brothers. So I don’t feel like I don’t have enough room for love. I don’t feel that way, but it can be emotionally draining, not necessarily on the love side of things, but in maintaining the emotional relationship we have with each other.”

The trio’s families are still coming to terms with their relationship.

The trio’s families were initially shocked by the relationship, and there was some initial resentment from their family members. Paulo’s mom was against her new relationship because she had a mental image of how she was supposed to live. However, over time, Paulo’s mother grew closer to Carly and now they understand each other well. The other members of Paulo’s family seem to agree with The Trifecta.

Carly’s mother was totally against the relationship, but she is slowly coming to terms with her decision. Most of the other members of her family accept her relationship, but there are still some who need convincing. Kassandra’s family probably took her new relationship more strongly than anyone else’s families. She comes from a religious background and most of her family members still disagree with the relationship. She said in the Q&A video:

“It’s just been an interesting journey and it wasn’t easy telling them. It really wasn’t easy dealing with people who didn’t want to support us, you know? So it’s been hard…”

Transparency and communication are the pillars of the trio’s relationship

Being in a relationship can be hard, and from the outside, you might think it’s harder to be in a threesome. At first, it was difficult for Trifecta to manage this relationship. Living together also brought a unique set of challenges. However, the trio have found a way to keep their relationship healthy.

Their secret is that they do not repress problems. They are transparent with each other and it helps them deal with problems before they get out of proportion. Paoulo explained in the Q&A video:

“It gets to a point where we really are more vulnerable to each other. We’re pushing to be more transparent, to be honest with each other, and that helps us relax these things that can build up and add more stress to the relationship. But like they said, we just communicate a lot. Sometimes we drop the ball and it’s okay because we return it.”

Forgiveness is also a big part of the Relationship Trifecta. The trio posted an Instagram photo on November 27, 2019 and added the caption:

“Like any Trifecta troop relationship, our poly relationship has had its ups and downs, but what has stuck through those times has been ‘FORGIVENESS.’ In fact, we are now beginning to see this virtue, this trait, take deep root in our hearts and bear much more fruit than we could have ever imagined.”

The trio is still learning how to handle jealousy.

Jealousy was always going to be a problem in the relationship. The trio admitted in the Q&A video that jealousy is part of the relationship, but chose to view it as constructive jealousy. They also revealed that jealousy has sometimes reached toxic levels, but so far they have managed to deal with it.

However, it gets a lot more complicated when it comes to intimacy. Managing jealousy in the bedroom is something the trio is still working on. Carly stated in a podcast titled How we balance intimacy in the bedroom:

“We are still trying to navigate that. We still like to have our challenges when it comes to intimacy. It’s getting easier, obviously, as time goes on. It’s getting better and we’re working things out, but it’s still not perfect.”

The Love Trifecta took a while to get used to in appearance.

Polyamorous relationships are not common and the trio knew they had to put up with people’s stares. The looks began when the trio celebrated their relationship on Valentine’s Day in 2019. Carly stated in the Q&A video:

“It was definitely awkward at first getting those looks. The first time we held hands in public, the three of us were very awkward. There was a lot of that…”

However, over time, the trio got used to the appearance and no longer felt awkward. They stated that it is as if they live in their own world. It has become so comfortable that they can kiss in public without worrying about who is watching and what people will say. The Trifecta have also met with people who are publicly supportive of their relationship, helping them deal with a mostly judgmental world.

The trio is open to having children in the future.

Kassandra and Paoulo were open to having children and their plans didn’t change after meeting Carly. According Sunpaulo said:

“We will definitely raise children together. I love my mom, I love my brother and I love my dad, our hearts are capable of loving more than one person at the same time. It’s not for everyone, but if you’re meant to be in a polyamorous relationship, things will fall into place naturally.”

In the Q&A video, the trio stated that they plan to have children, but that something significant could happen before they do. Paoulo and Kassandra might be planning to propose to Carly. Kassandra stated in the video that she doesn’t want Carly to know when the proposal is coming:

“I am not going to answer you because I do not want you to know if it comes before or after. Plus, we just don’t know if we’ll accidentally get pregnant. That scares me.”

An engagement announcement could be coming soon from The Trifecta Love.

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