Note: This article has been written by Priya Shah herself
Hello Hello everyone, I have been watching the Indian Matchmaking special on Netflix and I am well aware of all the negative publicity and memes I have collected. The way they have portrayed Indian matchmaking breaks my heart and I can tell you one thing that they have misinterpreted Indian matchmaking. I have the right to comment on this because I have been working in this industry for more than 30 years of my life and Indian matchmaking does not work the way they have shown in the shows.
But before anything I will share my personal life story with you guys, I got married when I was 18 years old and I got married to the person who was shown to me by my family. At that time I had no options but when I started matchmaking I started it with only one goal that every person should have options, be it a boy or a girl, instead of 1,2 persons a day Should be. I was blessed and lucky with my life partner but not everyone is that lucky.
I won’t say that the things shown in the show never happened, but they used to happen 2 decades ago, when people were bound and had limited thoughts with a conservative mindset. They wanted everything as per their wish but nowadays in the 21st century Indian matchmaking is very different and people are more aware of what they want from their children and it depends on compatibility rather than the height, complexion or features of a person. Is about.
Children choose their life partners, not their parents. We don’t just do arranged marriages, we call it arranged love marriages. Here we help people to find the right life partner and also we schedule multiple dates where people get a chance to know their future life partner in a better way. We don’t give them 1 or 2 options, we provide them more than 9 or 10 options because in today’s time we believe that no one should have to compromise, not a girl or a boy. Because marriages are meant to last forever and if it doesn’t work, it leaves a huge wound and regret.
So we never settle for anything less than perfect and the divorce rate in my matches is zero. We strive till our client finds the right life partner and we remain with them from the beginning till the end.
All our clients are from very influential families and they just want the best for their children and they want their child’s happiness, also we always get a special request that they find a partner as per their child’s choice rather than us . I have studied astrology and I do not promote it because all astrologers have different opinions on the same horoscope and I believe that horoscopes are just things of the past, they do not provide any clarity or guarantee on any matching. Let’s give.
What if all your horoscopes match with a person but you don’t get that love connection with your partner, so the astrologers shown in the show were misinterpreting Indian matchmaking.
Real matchmaking is about cooperation, understanding and love. Finally, we do not support those who ask for dowry and we do not accept customers who demand it.
Indian Matchmaking is a very poorly made show which takes you through the old matchmaking practices that died out decades ago and how we value the company of children before anything else.
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